HOW EMOTIONS BUILD A SUCCESSFUL BUSINESS

We all experienced about to build a business from passion, hard time, forcefully and heritage. But some of them build a business from their emotions too.
Is it possible to build a profitable business from emotions? Would any business are existing which is create from emotion?
As a human being this type of question is common to raise in our mind because from the begging we heard that to do business the some necessary things are required like;
1. Most important thing is Great Idea.
2. Capital
3. Assets
4. And much more thing as per idea.

Still we are not able to digest that connection of emotion and business. How it is possible?
This is a story of “AAROHI” who belong to a middle class family and student of CMA, somewhere she likes a guy which is doing same, his name is “Praveen”. We can say that he is a type of guy which so many girls like him and AAROHI is also one of them. But he has a lot of attitude and don’t respect the emotions and feeling.
After such time Aarohi became his friend and they both started talking, chatting on social site and sharing photos and videos.
On the birthday of Praveen, Aarohi makes a beautiful handmade gift for him. She collect the collection of his photos and peoples thought about him. On this gift she uses her creativity and approx she takes a week for making this beautiful gift. Praveen also like this gift and he appreciate this gift with his friends and family.
Next month, Praveen request to Aarohi for making the same gift for his friend and she couldn’t refuse him and ready to making this gift. But this time Aarohi make this gift in only four days. Again Praveen appreciate her and on return she only gives innocent smile.
Aarohi share the photo of this gift with her friends and one of them give her opinion to Aarohi that “why don’t you propose him in the same way”.
She like this idea and then she start to making one more gift and this time she use more creativity and ideas.
After a month, she found a perfect time and gives this gift to Praveen and immediate he opens the gift and started to read it. At this time the excitement of Aarohi is in the high level.
Praveen smile and look at the Aarohi, suddenly he tore the gift and said “you know which gift I made from you, that was for my girlfriend and a girl like you are not made for me” and he use some wrong words for Aarohi which hurt her.
After crying for such days, she decides to forget him and move on my life. Meanwhile her friend came and request to make a gift like that then, suddenly a word came from Aarohi’s mouth “I will charge five hundred rupees for it”.
She is ready to give him money as a consideration and Aarohi surprised and thought on mind “I told her money because I don’t want to make that type of gifts and I think if I ask for money then she refuse but she accept the offer”.
After a while some more friends told her for the gift then she starting to charge one thousand per gift plus some amount (if any addition on gift). And now she made a one gift in one day.
When she realized that she earn more than a normal job, she start her own retail shop near her house. One day Praveen also came on her shop as a costumer but he is over think that she will never charge single rupee with him. He notices that there is lot of costumer here so he waits for a while.
After that he gives an order of two gifts and as soon as he leaving, Aarohi stop him and said your total amount is three thousand rupees and you have to pay half of amount in advance. Now Praveen surprised and he have no option he gave him half of amount and left from her shop.
One of her friend notice to Aarohi the she asked “there is nothing additions in his gift so why are you charge one thousand extra?”
She smile and answered “old balance…
Here, there is an emotion of Aarohi behind the gift but now this gift became a “profitable business for her.
Sometime you only need emotions to start business as they became the key to everything,
And money and idea became secondary.

TRICKS TO CONTROL OVER THINKING

WHAT IS OVERTHINKING?
When a person starting too much thinking about something and for too long, hence they are not able to control on their thought and gets lost in the thought. At the end they feel depressed, non active and loser.

 

 

 

What is a thought?
Whatever image we create in our mind or we can say that whatever mind has been visualize and because of those visualization we react in our life and get some action and that visualize called thought.
Whatever we are in today or being in future it’s all depend on our thought,  which means thought is a primary stage or root of our life.

How thought work with over thinking?
Usually over thinking create as per our past incident but our thoughts decode it with our every next day. And when over mind accept the relation of our thought and over thinking then we started to live in beyond the world and didn’t want to accept which is really truth.
And sometime we become so friendly with this relationship and we like it and don’t want to get out of it. Then we feared to accept the truth and whatever is going on our mind is became a truth for us which is really a myth only.

For e.g. there was water spilled in the class room and Ram doesn’t notice it and suddenly his legs on the water and he fell down. Then whole class starts laughing. At same day everyone forget about that incidence but not Ram, he started think about that incident and create a story on his mind that he going to school tomorrow again everyone laughing on him and they all making joke on me. And he started to living on this thought and the next few days he didn’t go to school.
But the truth is no body care about that incident but our mind think too much about this type of incident and we fall on the over thinking and we have to start to call ourselves a ‘over thinker’.

How I control my thoughts to being a over thinking

I was that type of person who didn’t react about biggest matter but I was definitely thinking on a small things. And when I started thinking about any matter then I create the whole story.
I also so worried about my over thinking and hesitate to told to anyone but one day I dare to tell about my over thing to someone. And whatever I was thinking, I discussed to my roommate. As usually he didn’t give any advice between he also started to tell me about his story of over thinking.
Then I realized that this problem is not only with me but same day I experienced that, visualize of that thought is low now and I am failed to clearly visualize that thought. I understood that when I sharing my thought to my roommate, the mind start to erasing that visualize and now the mind able to concentrate on another things.
But from the next day another over thinking started on my mind and which was really harmful for me because this time the thought is came on my mind related to health. But normally I hate to share my anything to anyone. So this time I took a paper and pen then wrote whole thought on that paper and when I finished writing, immediately I destroy that paper.
But this thought not stop yet, when I forget any thought then another thought came on my mind and usually I tensed about it, then think and think lot of it and then I do something which can’t help me to came out from over thinking but it helps to me for playing with thoughts and which is not effecting in my daily life.

For controlling to my thought I do something like;

1. When the thought had not stop to come on my mind, I start to think much more about whatever thought on that time. “Like diamonds cut diamonds”. I became the hero of my own thought and build a story as per mine.
2. I enjoy becoming a storyteller of my thought. And direct it as per my direction.
3. Because of that over thinking I start writing and hence after some month I released my debut fiction story, “UNFINISHED FRIENDSHIP”.
4. But the thought didn’t stop at this, after some month of releasing first book I released one more “everyone has a right to love”.
5. And because of these two book my over thinking go on high level first book is on 80 pages and second is 140 pages after that I launched another which is my favorite “MYTH VS TRUTH, 235 pages.
6. And still I enjoy to lost in my over thinking.

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CONCLUSION;

1. Over thinking is not a matter of worried, it is a matter of opportunity. If you are an over thinker, which means you visualize anything or over thinking helps to you to clear your visualization. These are directly or indirectly help to achieving your goal.
2. Indirectly over thinking teach you a lot of lesson of life, it creates a different situation in your mind and now you have to solve it if really this situation came in your life the how you solve it.
3. Over thinking is help to being a mature.
If you really want to stop or control over thinking or unwanted thought
1. Trying to convert it into fiction story
2. Start reading (something good, avoid new paper or any news magazine)
3. Build some hobby (and start work on it)
4. Spend much more time with positive people’s
5. Be like a kids (best therapy to solve any problem)
6. Avoid soft or classic songs.

 

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over thinking is only a thought,

and thought is a feeling

so feel it, instead of worry.

A word “BICHARA” can spoil your personality

  • It’s true that a single word can spoil someone’s personality?

           But how?

Now I tell you a small story of two childhood friend, which are also neighbors of each other.

One of them is “VIVAAN” who is a business man and another one is “KRUPESH” who is a professional boxer. They both wakeup early and get jogging and exercise together and only this morning time they meet and share their feeling, emotions and problems.

It’s a morning of Monday which is a special day of both of them. VIVAAN is going to huge deal of some product manufacturing for government department and Krupesh has a tournament fight today where if he won he get a winning price which is ten lakh rupees.

At 4 pm of evening VIVAAN came back to the home and his face were dull, his mom know that he have not getting such deal. So when he came to home his mom is stood with neighbor aunt and telling her about VIVAAN failure. As soon as she looks at the VIVAAN, she communicates “oh… BICHARA VIVAAN, how he doing hard work but still has failed. BICHARA.”

After listening this statement VIVAAN sounded “hmmm…”

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At the same KRUPESH was also seen that he has coming and his tournament was live on TV so everyone know that he lose the match. Suddenly he stopped and his hand on the pocket and take out a ear plug which he use for meditation and put it from his ear and start moving toward the house, he know the habit of that neighbor aunt.

As soon as he reached at home he did simple hello to everyone and trying to ignore whatever they said. His face and hand is injury so he excused taking rest and giving all of them a small smile and left from there.

Next morning VIVAAN is not coming for morning walk so KRUPESH call him and told him for meeting at 9am in his house.

Exact at 9 am he meet with KRUPESH then he asked to VIVAAN “why are not coming at morning?”

His face still look like dull and depressed then he answered “what I would do?”

VIVAAN; what you mean?

KRUPESH; I wake up at early morning from last four year and still I fail.

VIVVAN shouted him: what is the link between your failures with early morning wake up.

Krupesh didn’t give any reply then VIVAAN communicate “you know what’s your problem, you have taken the words of aunt very seriously. She said you “BICHARA” and now you became a “BICHARA”. Because you are comfort with this word and you are happy with this type of sympathy.”

“Tell me one thing; what are you doing something special for that deal?

Nothing, you only create a project for giving a competitive to your competitors. At early morning you don’t do anything which effect in your deal or your life. But that sympathy word “BICHARA” effect in your life, it’s only a deal for you and the losing match was only a match for me, who can’t destroy our life understand?”

Krupesh nodded and came back to the work and they both promise to each other that they live far away from that aunt.

 

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What is the conclusion of this story?

The answer is that the word “BICHARA” is only a word but it play with our life. For example if you smoke once a time then you feel okay, then second time you feel fine and third time you want more and then you are habitual to smoke. Same as if you listen this word “BICHARA” you feel okay, second time you feel fine, third time you want people will give sympathy to you and then you are habitual to the sympathy.

As habit of smoking is spoil your kidney, same as the word “BICHARA” spoil your mind which is directly effect in your personality or in your goals also.

And always remember that the sympathy always make a person weak.

“Be strong, ignore sympathies.”